This body of work is about the particular pain of parenting teenagers, and comes from reflecting about Stolkholm Syndrome. How in the face of constant abuse by our kids/captors, it's still possible to nurture feelings of affection and love. What is a cage, and do we create our own captivity? My cages have no doors, they are part sanctuary and safety, but also freedom. Using 'mother' as a metaphorical element of essential structure and captivity, the cages contrast the ideas of the cage as confinement and refuge, places for solitary confinement and sympathetic equanimity.
16 x 10 foot installation 15” d
13 x 10 feet x 15” d
“Grace,” is about the particular pain of parenting teenagers. The birds are rendered in a shallow relief and form an integral part of the structure which offers shelter but not incarceration. You can focus on the individual or, in stepping back, see the repetition of the experience and note the way the individuals engage to form a community. Much like parenthood, your perspective changes as you move around the piece, and these representations of mother and family cast a shadow that can’t be separated from your interaction with the piece. This particular large scale installation has within it two smaller earlier groupings.
16.5"h x9"l x 9"d. My new black series began as a result of documenting my work using step-by-step process photos. My inspiration was a coloring book, and resulted in "Wall Flower," pictured next, a black cage whose frame was entirely formed by glass line drawings of a bird, flowers, leaves, and berries. Hanging behind the finished piece were the process shots I'd printed to plan my composition. The vitality of the idea captured in the photos was lost as I 'finished' the piece. I knew I needed to learn how to get out of my own way; the resulting work was this metaphor of mother as an unwavering support structure offering both security and freedom.
16.5"h x 9"w x 9"d. It Takes A Village is based upon the emergency evacuation plans mothers construct when they need to leave home overnight. We joke that my husband's route is straight out the door. Mothers often rely on complex support systems comprised of other mothers, patching together a crazy quilts of contingencies for their kids.
11' x 8' wall installation. Kelly Tonks Photography @ the Florence Griswold Museum in Old Lyme, CT.